Expections & Conduct For BDSM

Conduct

• Never cheat or engage with additional partners in an exclusive dynamic.
• Never openly talk/brag about your BDSM relationship by name-dropping your partner with others unless that is agreed upon. People often expect some anonymity and privacy in BDSM as not to affect their personal and/or professional life.
• See out and learn safety concerns for any kink you wish to practice on someone (or have done on yourself).
• Never stop learning, we are all students in this big world. Always come in with an open mind and ears.
• Never take screenshots, photo images, videos, or refer to someone being inside what could be perceived as the BDSM community, for the same reason above.
• Never be a Dom/Sub who uses their status to abuse and manipulate. Follow your partner’s limits and listen/follow what they say.
• Do not use your safe word as a joke, it devalues its importance for the moment when it is truly needed.
• If you are uncomfortable/something is not right, stop. Do not push yourself beyond what you find okay to appease anyone. Your personal safety comes first.
• Do not underestimate the headspace of a submissive. Some submissives may consent to something they would not otherwise when feeling submissive. As a Dominant, you should be cautious around pushing boundaries within scenes and know the limits of your submissive.

House Rules

If you ever partake in a local event or community check their rules and expectations before diving in. Many have specific rules that may not be obvious, such as no phone/camera use or drinking. Rules like these exist to ensure the privacy and safety of attendees, it can be a confusing venture if you do not pay attention. If you are unsure about something reach out beforehand and ask if something is alright.

Our Discord Community Rules

• Unwanted sexual direct messages will result in bans.
• Not following Direct Messaging Preferences may result in bans.
• Do not use our community for your gain IE: Discords, OnlyFans, Phishing Etc…. Doing so results in a permanent ban, as well as those involved.

Banned topics - kink-shaming, trigger topics like rape, suicide, unhealthy relationships, abuse, depression. Politics/race/religion, shock, homophobia/transphobia, ableism, and drug use.

Banned kinks - scat, necrophilia, bestiality, drug play/drugging/rape(cnc okay), findom and (hebe+ephe+pedo)phila, sounding, blood/gore, vore/inflation/furry, voyeurism, pregnant women, fisting.

Note: any staff may include/stop additional topics/kinks as desired Join our Discord for a full list of our current rules.